18 years later

It's me. Hi. I'm 41 now. And I'm still a virgin.

I'm also pretty damn comfortable with the idea I probably will be one for the rest of my life. It's an interesting thing to consider when so much of life still stretches forward.

Do I have any answers this many years later?

Not really. I'm somewhere on the asexual spectrum, though I also don't like advertising it because it's not anybody's business what I do (or don't do) in my private life. It's weird for me to think about how that level of visibility has become the norm.

I might have more thoughts on this over time -- hopefully before another decade passes.