Prude?

In "How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days," one of the characters talks about having sex after knowing/dating this guy for two days. She also says she said "I love you" at this point, too.

Two days seems really fast to me. Downright slutty. Am I being a prude or is this normal? Not only that, but even if it's not normal, is it normal for NYC?

It seems the dating pool/dating scene in NYC is piranha-infested (on both sides of the gender divide). Is this what I have to look forward to? I wouldn't find it surprising to end up dying a virgin if this is what guys "expect" out of their dates, then.

The thing is, this prospect [of dying a virgin] does not really faze me at all.

Gay or Down Low?

Are supposedly straight men who allow gay men to give them blowjobs gay as well? Or is this "acceptable" straight man behavior? Are they bisexual?

And does this change for women? Do women, who have other women go down on them, become bisexual by these sexual choices?

Is sexuality a mindset? Do you know if you're gay, straight, or bi based on how you think? Is it about who you're attracted to? Can you know this without ever experiencing it?

This question has been on my mind forever. How can I know if I'm sexually attracted to women when my rational mind and traditional Asian cultural upbringing tells me not to act on it?

It's a tug-of-war, and I am exhausted.